Beyond Blame Relationship Coaching

Deep Connection and Commitment

Cindy L.

Scott’s Beyond Blame process offers unique and compassionate methods that resolve conflict, restore communication and create resilience within relationships. I witnessed the establishment and strengthening of the deep connection and commitment between two people who were on the brink of separating. It was an amazing process that can (and should!) be used for any relationship.

 

Soul Work

Deborah H.

This is soul work. Scott offers a practical grace-filled process for engaging creatively with the inevitable conflicts inherent in authentic relationships and community. His guidance each step of the way helped us to see a mutually challenging situation from inside each other’s perspective. Given the challenges of our times, I can’t think of a more critically important ability to nurture and grow.

 

Guidance Through “Stuck Places”

Rosie G.

Scott was excellent in gently assisting two siblings through this process. He was able to guide them through their “stuck” places in their lifelong relationship. It was encouraging to see the progress they made fairly quickly. He was like a mechanic that helped get them back on the road.

 

Witnessing Moving Beyond Blame

Pamela S.

As a witness in the Beyond Blame process, I was impressed by the steps outlined for learning to take mindful responsibility for identifying triggers and the underlying unmet needs. It was refreshing to watch the participants move beyond the tendency to assign blame and instead, commit to more conscious communication in the future. Scott was patient, gentle, insightful and always positive in his support of the persons going through the process.

 

Emotional Topics

Kelly F.

With Scott’s help my ex-husband and I were able to discuss very emotional topics while staying present and focused. We re-established our parenting relationship using agreed upon tools that we will use from now on. It has been an incredibly positive experience that has benefited us and our son. I cannot thank you enough for the work you do and guidance you have provided.

 

Transformational Life Coaching

Improving Communication

Sam, Lafayette, CO

Pretty intense. I was challenged to look beyond what I thought was possible. This process was a good first step for improving communication. I feel positive about the commitments that came out of the process.

 

Talk Without Judgement

Nick, Erie, CO

I really appreciated the chance to talk about everything without judgment. The process really helped me focus on issues I would otherwise gloss over.

 

Kind and Insightful

James Churches, Nederland, CO

Scott Brown is a kind and insightful coach. He helped me through a challenging stretch in my life. With his guidance, I was able to reach a significant goal, overcoming many obstacles along the way. I highly recommend Scott as a coach who can make a huge difference in your life.

 

Present Moment

Elizabeth, Boulder, CO

I felt like Scott’s presence was very supportive. What I appreciated most was how, right from the start, he stayed with what was happening in the present moment. Working through what specifically is my present experience without blaming was challenging and very helpful. I can see my ex-husband more as a person now instead of an ex-husband.

 

Refreshing, Purposeful and Honest

Katie. B., Erie, CO

Scott has a refreshing, purposeful and honest approach to relationship coaching that extends beyond the immediate session. His guidance and expertise gave us useful tools that not only enabled us to resolve our immediate differences but also improved our relationship going forward. We are grateful for his assistance.

 

Active Peace Circles and Active Peace Circle Training

“A huge amount of benefit can come from a process like this … in terms of relationship building, learning, and harm repair – naming the harm, naming the needs and naming what can be done for accountability.”

“I appreciate the constant willingness to continue to communicate and remain caring of one another.”

“It was extremely important and moving to hear each of the individual accounts of their experience of the incident. It showed how the incident impacted such a range of people on such a deep level.”

“Amazingly thorough exploration of the event/issues, disciplined but with tremendous kindness.”

“Thank you for this rich opportunity to learn with dignity.”

“This was a profound experience for me personally and I greatly appreciate the opportunity to explore the process.”

“I have found the APC process to be extraordinary in its thoroughness and impact. It brings together and enables heartfelt and transformative communication between people with very distinct perspectives on a situation of conflict and harm. It is a process especially well-suited for spiritual communities.”

 

Restorative Activism Workshops

Powerful and Moving

Carol Myers, Boulder, CO

The Restorative Activism workshop was powerful and moving; as a result, I was able to repair and hopefully strengthen a difficult relationship with my daughter. The workshop gave me the tools to access my “higher self” instead of my ego.

 

Through My Grief

Julie Clement, Longmont, CO

The workshop gave me a focus for many of my recent feelings. Through my grief I am opening to the revealing path of my activism and service to others. Scott’s work is courageous and truthful and has been very beneficial to my growth.

 

Peace and Compassion

Sarah Solter, Boulder, CO

The calm, safe, and accepting atmosphere at the workshop allowed the participants to share deeply and authentically. I came away feeling connected and less alone in my beliefs in peace and compassion. I found the mindfulness exercises both challenging and renewing, and feel that they are an arena through which I can continue to gain clarity about how I need to engage with the world. The workshop was a beautiful experience and I will hold it in my heart as a source of inspiration.

 

Gratitude and Appreciation

Beth Bunning, Lafayette, CO

I want to express my gratitude and appreciation for the workshop on Restorative Activism. There was such clear commitment and vision in the flow of activities, from the lighthearted to the profound. It was very refreshing to realize that so many people understand the need to synthesize spiritual principles with their actions in the world. The environment created in the workshop was an inspired collaboration. Thank you!

 

Daring and Transformative

David Beumée, Lafayette, CO

Scott’s workshops open hearts and challenge us to transform society through powerful, restorative justice-inspired peace circles. Entering into heart space with people with whom I was previously unfamiliar was daring and transformative for me.

 

Youth Mentoring and Restorative Justice

Patient, Accepting Listener

Emily Griffith, Program Manager, Alternative Homes for Youth

It is a privilege to have observed and learned from Scott Brown while working together at Alternative Homes for Youth. It is abundantly clear that not only does Scott care greatly for the wellbeing of the clients he was directly working with, but every one involved in the Restorative Justice process. Scott believes in Restorative Justice to the core of his being, which allowed many of the youth to commit themselves to the process to the best of their ability. Scott is truly one of the most patient, accepting listeners I have ever met. Thank you Scott for allowing me to be a witness to your work!

 

Miracle Work

Jennifer Gunnarson-Scott, Client Manager/Parole Officer, Colorado Division of Youth Corrections

In the 20 years of my professional work in some sort of human services field the restorative justice circle with Scott Brown was truly one of the most amazing and valuable experiences. The level of accountability and sincerity I just do not have the words to describe it was so incredible. An EXCELLENT, EXCELLENT resource for our kids, families, and community. It is like miracle work!

 

Go-To Mentor

Leon Rodriguez, LCSW, Client Manager/Parole Officer, Colorado Division of Youth Corrections

Scott is recognized as a go-to mentor for working with difficult youth. He has a great ability to connect with people, show them respect, listen for what they really need, and offer them support and hope. He models adult behavior and values—something desperately needed by so many youth. I heartily recommend his services.

 

Dynamic and Comprehensive

Ben Smith, MA, Program Director, Alternative Homes for Youth

Scott Brown offers a dynamic and comprehensive practice of Restorative Justice and mentoring. He utilizes foundational principles not only to repair harm but also to address the need for deeper healing and new beginnings. Scott’s passion for his work and desire to restore balance to the world is remarkable. His work will challenge how you think about health and relationships.